Sunday, August 31, 2014

Let Love Be Genuine


31 August 2014 - A Lectionary 22
Text: Romans 12:9-21
Our Redeemer Lutheran Church, Grand Prairie, Texas

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May the words of my mouth and the meditations of my heart be always acceptable in your sight, O LORD, my strength and my redeemer. Amen.

Today’s New Testament reading from Romans 12 finishes out that chapter for us. Last week, we heard Paul’s words about presenting our bodies as living sacrifices to God; today we hear a series of imperatives (directions) all about love. Specifically, all about the love of Christians.

We hear the word “love” thrown about quite a lot. We may “love” coffee from a certain place. Maybe we “love” the novel we just finished reading or “love” someone’s dress or shirt or shoes. Even in the Church, “love” is a pretty commonly-used word:

“They’ll know we are Christians by our …..”
“Jesu, Jesu, fill us with your …..”
“What feast of ….”

And how many weddings have you been to with the lesson that begins with “Love is patient, love is kind…” and ends with “…faith, hope, and love abide, these three; and the greatest of these is love.”[1] Well, like those “love verses” from 1 Corinthians 13, this Romans passage was also written by Paul, and so it makes sense that in Romans, as in 1 Corinthians, we hear all about love, love, love.

Except Paul isn’t talking about any old love here. Sure, the 1 Corinthians 13 passage is wonderful at weddings (we used it at ours), but both in 1 Corinthians 13 and here in Romans 12, Paul is, of course, writing specifically to church communities – in other words, to gatherings of Christians not that much different than our church community here in Grand Prairie. So when we read Romans 12:9, we need to read it with our communal eyes, not necessarily with the romance of rose-colored glasses.

“Let love be genuine,” he says, just putting it out there, and then he goes on to give us some specifics of what genuine Christian love looks like. His list is long, and many of the directives given are reminiscent of the Greatest Commandments to love God with all our heart, with all of our soul, and with all of our mind, and then to love our neighbors as ourselves.[2] This is a list that is all about our relationships. Beyond that, though, I would say that Paul is writing here about the actions we take within our relationships.

Once upon a time, a woman lost her husband in a tragic accident. She was crazy with grief, mourning her loss so deeply that no one could provide her with comfort. At last, a friend took her to the house of a holy man, where the widow made this sobbing plea: “Use your powers to bring my husband back to life! Surely you are able to find a way to lighten my grief!”

The old man spoke kindly to the woman, “Bring me a mustard seed from a home that has never known sorrow. I will use that seed to remove the pain from your life.”

Immediately, the woman set out in search of the magic mustard seed. “First,” she thought, “I will visit the home of a wealthy family. Tragedy is less likely to strike them.” Soon, she approached a beautiful mansion, knocked on the door, and spoke to the woman who greeted her. “I am in search of a home that has never known sorrow. Is this such a place? Please – it is vital that I know.”

“Never known sorrow!” cried the woman who had answered the door. “You have come to the wrong house!” And as she sobbed, she began to describe all of the tragedies that had touched her family. She invited the widow into her home to explain in detail what had taken place. The widow remained for many days, listening and caring.

When she left to resume her search, the widow next visited a modest home about a mile away. The experience was the same. Wherever she traveled, from mansion to hut, she was greeted with tales of sadness and sorrow. Everyone found her a willing and careful listener.

After months of travel, she became so involved with the grief of others that she forgot about her search for the magic mustard seed, never realizing that it had indeed driven the sorrow from her life.[3]

The woman in this story is driven to genuine love. She begins with a deep need for personal healing, but ends up as a minister, listening to tales of woe and offering her support to other people.

Beginning next weekend, and all next month, we will – as a congregation – also be driven to genuine love through our various service projects. Together, we will create things for those who need love given to them. Together, we will work the soil of a community garden. Together, we will put up a Little Free Library and we will plant a wildflower area. Together, we will offer love and work and beauty to our community.

My prayer is that we will do all of this with genuine love – and so much more! – rejoicing in the hope given to us through the great love of Jesus Christ, our Lord.

Amen.

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[1] 1 Cor. 13
[2] Mt. 22
[3] Adapted from the story “Magic Mustard Seeds” in Stories for Telling by William White, p. 42.

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